就说：“我认为我们国家应该开放，比如唐纳德·特朗普是移民的儿子，他的几任夫人也都是移民。我觉得更紧迫的问题是美国家庭的衰退，名人文化和随意的婚姻……”
A great technique is just to use the connector absolutely right and…..you can then alter the conversation as you wish. 有一招很好用，就是只说过渡语“是的，而且……”或“是的，你说的很对，而且……”，然后你就可以随意转移话题了 ==
兴趣不一样的人怎么在一起 I just broke up with my girlfriend. 我刚刚和女朋友分手了。 Yeah, it\'s a sad story. 对，这是个悲伤的故事。
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But we are totally OK with it. 但是我们俩对此都很淡定。
It\'s not that something bad happened and we broke each other\'s heart. 并不是有什么坏事发生了然后我们伤了彼此的心。
It\'s just that we found out we don\'t really have many mutual hobbies. 我们只是发现，彼此真的没有什么共同爱好。
So we broke up peacefully and wished each other a better future. 于是，我们就和平分手了，然后希望对方能有一个更好的未来
You see, sometimes you just got attracted biologically or irrationally by someone.
你看，有时候你就是会被一些人吸引，可能是生理性地，可能是没理性地。 But as time goes by you find out that you two are not interested in the same things.
但随着时间过去，你发现你们两个感兴趣的事情并不一样。
This is harmful for both of you, because love requires you to devote time into each other.
这对双方都是有害的，因为爱情需要你在对方身上投入时间。
But when you don\'t really like doing the same things, this is a waste of life. 但当你们喜欢的不是同样的东西时，这只是浪费生命。
We are all searching for a happy life. So don\'t trap yourself in an unhealthy relationship.
我们都在为自己寻找一个幸福的生活。所以，不要让自己陷在一段不健康的关系中。 Just let it go. 看开一点吧 ==
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奥普拉震撼全美的演讲,出乎意料的被喷了
Seal has lashed out at Oprah Winfrey following her inspirational Golden Globes speech, claiming she knew about the rumors surrounding Harvey Weinstein but did nothing.
奥普拉·温弗瑞在金球奖颁奖典礼上发表了鼓舞人心的演说之后，希尔却斥责她知道有关哈维·温斯坦的流言，但却什么都没做。
The talk show queen\'s widely-applauded speech on Sunday night focused on the plight of sexually abused women and the \'MeToo\' movement. 星期天晚上，这位脱口秀女王发表的那番广受赞誉的演讲主要围绕着遭受性侵的女性们的困境以及“我也是”运动来展开的。
But Seal accused the media maven of being an example of \'sanctimonious Hollywood\'.
然而，希尔却谴责这位传媒专家是“好莱坞中假装圣洁的人”。 He took to Instagram Wednesday, sharing a shot of Oprah with the disgraced producer at two events with a meme that read: \'When you have been part of the problem for decades... but suddenly they all think you are the solution.\'
星期三他在Instagram上发布了奥普拉与那位声名狼藉的制片人在两次活动上的合照，并配文称：“几十年来你一直都是问题的一部分……而他们却突然都以为你是解决方案。”
The 54-year-old singer took it one step further, captioning the meme that Oprah knew about the sexual misconduct allegations against Weinstein, writing \'You\'d heard the rumours but you had no idea he was actually serially assaulting young actresses who in turn had no idea what they were getting into. My bad.\'
这位54岁的歌手进一步表示，奥普拉早就知道那些针对温斯坦性行为不端的
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指控，并写道“你听说了那些流言，但你不知道他确实接连性侵了几位年轻的女演员，而这些女演员也不知道自己陷入了什么样的境遇。我的错。” He hash-tagged the post with \'#SanctimoniousHollywood.\' 他还为这个帖子加上了“好莱坞中假装圣洁的人”这样的标签
It is unclear if Seal could say with certainty that Oprah was aware of the varied claims againstWeinstein.
目前还不清楚希尔是否能确切地说明奥普拉知道针对温斯坦的各种控诉。 Oprah\'s speech at the Globes speech was likened to a campaign speech, which in turn sparkedthe reports that the former talk show queen is eyeing a potential presidential run in 2020.
奥普拉在金球奖颁奖典礼上的演说很像一次竞选演说，这也使有关报道称这位前脱口秀女王可能在考虑参加2020年总统大选。
The singer caught a good deal of backlash for his post, with many angered by Seal muddlingOprah\'s speech.
这位歌手因为他的帖子而遭到了大量抵制，许多人对于希尔混淆了奥普拉的演说而气愤不已。
Some questioned if Seal himself knew about the allegations against Weinstein.
一些人质疑希尔本人是否了解针对温斯坦的指控 ==
Eight Small Things People Use To Judge Your Personality
The human brain is hardwired to judge. This survival mechanism makes it very hard to meet someone without evaluating and interpreting their behavior.
While we tend to think that our judgments are based on the content of
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conversations and other obvious behaviors, the research says otherwise. In fact, the majority of our judgments are focused on smaller, subtler things, such as handshakes and body language. We often form complete opinions about people based solely on these behaviors.
We are so good at judging other people’s personalities based on small things that, in a University of Kansas study, subjects accurately predicted people’s personality traits, such as extroversion/introversion, emotional stability, agreeableness, conscientiousness, and openness, simply by looking at pictures of the shoes they wore.
