(2018安徽江淮十校三模试题) Teens are certainly confusing and complicated,but there is one thing that’s clear about them: More than anything else,they want to fit in with their peers.They want and need to stay connected.Without connection,they feel lonely,anxious and sad,1. .
Teens,like adults,run into all sorts of dilemmas with their friends.Friendships are neither all good nor all bad.As an adult,you have experience with these sorts of friends and have made your own adjustments in these relationships.Given both your own life experience and your concern for your teens,you’re in an excellent position to help your teens set boundaries with friends.Certainly,some friendships are worth maintaining,while some are not,2. .There are many ways you can help your teens handle these relationships effectively.Here are some steps I would suggest taking:
1.Teach your teens to label their feelings.They need to know what it is that they are feeling first to effectively set limits and boundaries with friends.Help them label setbacks,exhaustion,disappointment and anger.This is no small task.Many kids struggle with labeling their feelings.
2.3. .If they sense that something is wrong in a friendship,they’re probably right,and they need to quit it as soon as possible.
3.Explain to your teens that they can’t be all things to all friends.And let them know that friendships are most likely to grow and continue if they feel good about them.
4.Discuss different ways to set boundaries.Explain to your kids that just as it makes sense to say yes at times,4. .Just as it’s fine to spend lots of time with a friend during the week,it’s equally OK to spend less time with the same friend when that friend is being too demanding or needy.
5.Look at your behavior in relationships.5. .They are quietly watching your every move.So make sure you’re setting a good example for them to follow in your relationships as well.
A.so they need to tell what are right relationships
B.and they shall find their way out of those friendships
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